Is there something that people consistently ask you for help with?
If you wrote romance novels or erotic fiction, what would your “pen name” be?
If you could master any instrument on earth, what would it be? What was your proudest moment from the past twelve months? What was your worst haircut / hairstyle of all time? When you see peers / competitors getting things you want, how do you react? Who is the last person that deeply disappointed you? ) Would you consider yourself an introvert, extrovert, or ambivert? Would you rather have a live-in massage therapist, or a live-in chef?
) Have you ever unplugged from the Internet for more than a week? If you could have tea with one fictional character, who would it be? When was the last time you saw an animal in the wild? ) Would you rather be a lonely genius, or a sociable idiot?
Do you think everyone has the capacity to be a leader?
If you could save one endangered species from extinction, which would you choose? What’s going to be carved on your (hypothetical) tombstone? What’s in your pocket (or purse, or man-purse) right now? What’s your most urgent priority for the rest of the year? What’s your recipe for recuperating from extreme heartbreak? Would you rather have an extra 0 a day, or an extra 2 hours a day? What are you most grateful for, right now, in this moment?
Do you have any physical features that you try to cloak or hide?
Do you have any personal rituals for the end of the year?
Have you ever been genuinely afraid for your physical safety?
Have you ever (actually) kept a New Year’s Resolution? ) Have you ever fantasized about changing your first name? Have you ever fantasized about writing an advice column?
This is another opportunity for her to boast about herself and a great way to see how attentive she is when it comes to others.