So you’ve both swiped right, and it’s a perfect match. This means that the competition is high, and the ball is in your court to make the next move.
The truth of the matter is that you’re probably not the only one she’s matched with this week, today, or even in the last few hours.
Online dating apps and sites can be an incredible source to rely on to reach your Megadating goals.
But first, you have to know how to write a compelling first message on a dating site or app, and how to send them out at a higher rate than ever before.
Women like short, confident messages that make an impression while leaving a bit of a mystery as well.
For more tips on how to increase your response rate, take a look at my article on how to get women to message you back on dating sites. Scan her interests section for commonalities you share, including books, food, movies, or art.
When dating, online or offline–women need to protect themselves from the many men who are after one thing, and if you comment on her looks, you’re placing yourself in the same category as the guys she’s Instead of commenting on her appearance, find something that interests you about her profile.
Telling her first thing is not only stating the obvious, it also adversely affects the way she thinks about you.
Chances are, she’s going to ignore you if you send one too. While something too short will seem really impersonal, a message that’s too long might come across as too intense and scare her off. Think about it, women get dozens of first messages every day.
Do you think she has time to sift through your life story?
If you know anything about me and my coaching services, you know I’m a huge supporter of Megadating.
Megadating is, hands down, the best way to meet people and find the love of your life.
If you do have something in common, use it to your advantage.