I have found that men who have been married are a bit more structured and familiar with the little things.
They seem to naturally have more of a routine and offer to do things that a lot of men who have never been married would not think to do for another person.
I believe that marriage teaches men responsibility, structure, how to co-define reality, what women want and how to put someone else before themselves.
I have giggled to myself and so very much appreciated the little things that divorced men I have dated have done for me.
They have taken out my garbage, carried my luggage, taken my car for an oil change, cooked me dinner, talked about my day at work and brought me breakfast in bed.
I understood and respected the fact that most men wanted children.
As I have gotten older, I have loved dating divorced men with kids because it has taken the pressure off of me to have children with them.
The best move is to be yourself and let them come to know you on their own terms.