The vast majority of men report that their reason for cheating was primarily sex.2.Only a small minority of men who stray end up falling in love with their affair partners.3.If you do not speak your truth, a distance will grow between the two of you and love will disappear from your relationship. I set up a support system to help people all over the world get in touch with their truth and express it. There’s another benefit gained from expressing your truth and, most importantly, your deeper needs for encouragement, support, and dedication.We now know through research on healthy couples that having your partner’s help in growing as a person and vice versa also improves the quality of the whole relationship.The intimacy they share, the illusion he creates, is tremendously mesmerizing.She may perceive it as his commitment, an investment in their relationship.It may be morally or ethically wrong; it just depends who you ask. It's simply about understanding our natural tendencies and their origins.If a woman in Susan's position digs deep enough into the infidelity blogs and self-help guides and finds these facts, she may just save herself before he ends the relationship.
Lovein90Do you struggle when it comes to telling your partner that something is bothering you?
Healthy partners clearly explain what they think and feel.
More importantly, they express what they want and need so that they can help each other win and come through for one another.
His time with her, whether texting, secret coffee dates, or time spent in her bed, reveals a commitment much deeper than the single men she has been with. They didn’t have to engage in clandestine plans and think of elaborate excuses.
And most single men confess they are initially very careful not to appear too interested, lest they find themselves headed for a commitment they're not ready for.
Susan has been asked by close friends and family who are aware of the affair what drove a successful, attractive, intelligent woman to start and continue a relationship with a married man for nearly three years?